Not to be a total boner-kill here, but when we get down to it, every relationship you’re ever in will end in one of two ways.
The first option is the happy ending we all know and love. The person is your soulmate, and the two of you end up together forever. Maybe it’s marriage or maybe it’s a Goldie Hawn/Kurt Russell type of together forever, where you’re not married, but still super in love.
No matter what the case is, you two were lucky enough to find “the one” in each other.
But then, there’s also a second option: You realize the person you’re dating isn’t “the one,” and the two of you break up. Yep, there you have it.

5 Stages Every Girl Goes Through After A Breakup [5TAGES]

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KIND OF FREAKS YOU OUT, DOESN’T IT?
Well, if you really want to ride out this freak-out train, read about what exactly made these men on Reddit realize their significant others weren’t the one:
This guy’s girlfriend cheated on him and then lied about it.

When I figured out she cheated on me and still tried to lie to my face about it when I confronted her about it. Most heartbreaking thing I’ve ever experienced. Happened yesterday and I’m still trying to figure out how the hell this happened
– /u/Iama_Kokiri_AMA
Their girlfriends started feeling more like friends.

Definetly when you just start seeing her as more of a friend and less like a soulmate.
– /u/Croww_

It felt more like we were friends who fucked sometimes than a relationship. Once I met my fiancée now, I realized what I was missing. That feeling.
So now I’m getting married in a month. Feels good man.
– /u/KonigderWasserpfeife

Why Being Friends With Your Ex Never Works Out [Disconnected]

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He never really saw her as a friend.

We did fun things, but the fun we had wasn’t because of the time spent together. It was because of the activities. Our personalities didn’t quite fit even as friends.
– /u/liveerasnettim
His girlfriend had a little too much fun with the Marines.

When she fucked every Marine on Okinawa and lied about it.
– /u/BlazerFS23
He did all the work in his relationship.

She was content with me putting in the lions share of the effort. I made her family love me, she barely put the effort in to talking to mine. I surprised her with cute dates that i knew SHE would like, she did the same for me maybe once. I made the effort to be around her friends, she barely spoke to mine. As long as i was the one putting in the effort, she was happy.
– /u/Deafening_Whisper

Why Guys Should Pay For the Date

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This guy’s partner had no ambition.

She didn’t have aspirations. She wasn’t interested in school or a job. She just wanted to move in together to watch Netflix. I’ve started school again and I want someone to go through the suck with me. I wanted to grow together.
– /u/Luisthebeast182
He was cheated on at the worst possible time in his life.

When she promised to be with me forever, and then cheated on me with a local guy in the middle of my parents’ divorce.
– /u/DAVasquez-

Why Micro-Cheating Is Just As Bad As Cheating

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His girl was jealous of their future child.

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Already jealous of our future child when we you’re not pregnant yet? Yup, nope, I’m out.
– /u/vbnm345
His best wasn’t good enough for her.

She cheated on me and said she needed a “real man” despite me putting 110% effort into our relationship
– /u/Doctor_Anon

Mothers Reveal The Real Reasons You Should Appreciate Them

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His girlfriend was just his rebound.

I’m not so sure I ever thought that she was the one for me. I had just suffered an unusually difficult breakup and really all I was looking for was someone to validate that someone could love or at least appreciate me again.
She did that for me, which was good. But she did a lot of other things that were bad. It’s a relationship that never should have happened, but we all make mistakes in life.
– /u/JackPAnderson
This guy’s girlfriend was a little too concerned with her dog’s needs.

Her telling me I could fuck her dog because she thought the dog would like it was a good sign…
But nearly everyone I knew unanimously saying she was bad for me was another hint
– /u/dtc413

Why Having A Pet Is Better Than Being In A Relationship [GEN WHY]

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His girlfriend was a liar.

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When it became clear that she was a habitual liar, not someone that made the occasional mistake.
On a less hostile note, another relationship ended when we accepted that we were just different enough in our needs and life goals that we both were better off with someone else. Neither of us were wrong, but I wanted a more random external life with lots of travel and she preferred a more stable and home-centric one.
– /u/ra__account
Now, here’s to hoping your BAE isn’t having any of these thoughts.
But, seriously, don’t freak out about this stuff too much. If you’re happy in your relationship, just trust that and enjoy it.
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